Send the follow-up the same day, while the meeting is still fresh for both of you. It should say what you heard, what happens next, who does it, and by when. If you hear nothing in three days, send one short nudge. That's all a good post-meeting follow-up needs.

The meeting itself is rarely where deals are lost. They get lost in the days after, when both sides go back to their inboxes and nothing is written down. This article gives you the structure of the recap, a worked example, and what to do if the other side goes quiet.

Send the recap the same day

An hour after the call is better than tomorrow. By tomorrow the other person has had eleven other conversations and half remembers what you discussed. A same-day note puts your version of the meeting in their head first, and that version is accurate because you wrote it down.

You can get away with a short email. Four to six lines. People skim post-meeting emails the way they skim a receipt: they're looking for the one number or date that matters. Here's a worked example from a fictional IT support firm, Northbridge Tech, after a call with the owner of a nine-person accounting office:

Subject: Recap and next steps

Hi Keisha,

Thanks for the time today. What I heard: your server is five years old, backups run but nobody has tested a restore, and you want a fixed monthly price instead of paying by the hour.

Next steps: I'll send a proposal with a monthly price by Thursday. You'll check with Omar on whether the lease on the current server ends in March. Can we talk Monday the 14th at 10 to go through the proposal?

Best, Andre

That's about 90 words, and it carries everything the next conversation needs.

Put the next step in writing

A recap without a next step is a thank-you note. Thank-you notes are nice, but they don't move a deal. The next step should be one concrete action with a person's name on it.

Split it into two lists in your head: what you'll do and what they'll do. Put both in the email. People tend to follow through on things that appear in writing with their name next to them, and they remember that you will too. If the next step is vague ("let's stay in touch"), pick a better one before you send. A good next step is a proposal, a second meeting, a trial, a document to review, or an introduction to someone else.

For a fuller look at how deals stall without this, see closing without a process.

Include the date you agreed on

Dates are the difference between "we'll talk soon" and a meeting. At the end of the call, say it out loud: "Can we pick a time to go through the proposal?" Then repeat the agreed date in your email.

If you ran out of time and no date was set, propose two options in the recap rather than leaving it open: "Would Monday at 10 or Tuesday at 2 work?" Two choices get answered faster than an open calendar. If the person uses a calendar link, send it only if they ask. You can read more about why in booking into Google Calendar without a link.

Then put the date in your own calendar with a reminder the day before. A meeting you agreed to but never scheduled doesn't exist.

Answer what they asked in the meeting

Every meeting has one or two questions you couldn't answer on the spot. "What's your uptime guarantee?" "Do you work with our accounting software?" Write them down while you're talking, and answer them in the recap, or tell them when you will.

This is the part most people skip, and it's the part customers notice. If Keisha asked about restore testing and your email comes back with a two-line answer, you've shown her you listen and follow through before she's paid you anything. If you need time, say so: "You asked about our response time on weekends. I'll confirm with the team and answer by Wednesday."

If you ask better questions in the first place, you'll have better material for the recap. Discovery call questions covers that.

Keep it to what they will actually read

Resist the urge to attach a deck, a brochure and a case study. Send only what the person asked for in the meeting. Three attachments for a one-hour conversation reads like a sales machine. One attachment, named clearly ("Northbridge proposal draft"), reads like a person. If you have a longer document, offer it: "I can send the full service agreement when you're ready to look at it."

The subject line should help them find it later. "Recap and next steps" works. "Following up on our conversation" disappears among forty other emails with the same subject.

The three-day nudge

If the other person owed you something (a document, a decision, a reply on a date) and three days pass without it, send a brief nudge. Skip "just following up." Say what the next step was and ask a small question.

Hi Keisha, quick check on the lease date for the server. Once I have that, I can finalize the proposal and get it to you this week. Did Omar get back to you?

Notice that it points at the shared task, not at her silence. It gives her a reason to reply that isn't guilt. Three days is long enough that you're not hovering and short enough that the meeting is still alive in her mind.

If you owe something and you're late, send it anyway with a one-line apology. "Sorry this took a day longer than I said" costs nothing and is better than a perfect proposal that arrives next week.

Not sending the recap is one more way follow-up quietly fails, as the follow-up that never happens describes.

Who to copy on the email

If more than one person was in the meeting, send the recap to all of them. If someone mentioned a colleague who wasn't there but will decide, ask permission to include them: "Would you like me to copy Omar so he has the same notes?" Don't copy people without asking, and don't add your own boss to impress anyone.

When you're speaking to a single decision maker, one recipient is fine. Keep the thread going in the same email chain so your history stays in one place and everybody can scroll up to see what was agreed.

What to do if you hear nothing

Follow your nudge with one more message a week later, offering a different way in. A short question, a useful link, or a call instead of an email. If there's still no reply after two or three attempts, a final message closing the loop is respectful and often prompts an answer. The idea is covered in how to write a breakup email, and the later messages are laid out in following up with leads who ghost you.

Record each meeting in one place: date, who was there, what was promised, and the next date. You'll thank yourself in a month when a prospect says "remind me what we talked about."

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