In most dental practices the owner-dentist decides and the office manager recommends, and the front desk decides whether you ever reach either. So selling to a dentist is really three short conversations in the right order: one with the front desk to learn who handles vendors, one with the office manager to get a small test approved, and a last one with the dentist to sign off. Skip the order and you stall at the front desk.

This guide is for vendors, not for dentists looking for patients. It gives word-for-word wording for the front desk and for the owner, an email both of them can read, and a follow-up that goes through the office manager. It deliberately avoids anything clinical and anything involving patient data.

Who answers the phone, and what each person wants

Tamsin sells a postcard mailing service to dental practices. Each campaign sends 500 cards to new movers around one office, with a tracking phone number printed on them so the practice can count the calls it brings in. She calls offices with 1 to 3 dentists. Here is who she meets.

  • The front desk answers, protects the dentist's schedule, and knows who handles vendors. Most of the time, this is your first and only contact for a week.
  • The office manager runs the day-to-day, including supplies, services and marketing. Often the person you actually want to convince.
  • The owner-dentist controls the budget and signs anything with a cost. Between patients, they have little time and little patience for pitches.

Ask each office when the office manager is in, since schedules vary and some practices close one weekday. Write down what you hear and call then.

The call to the front desk

Hi, this is Tamsin with Neighbor Mail. I'm not a patient, I'm calling about a service for the practice, and I'd like to be sure it gets to the right person. Who looks after things like marketing and outside vendors, is that the office manager?

You asked for help, not for the dentist. Most front desk staff will give you a name and a day. If they say "send us an email," say "Happy to. Who should I address it to, and is there a good time that person is usually in?" That question turns a brush-off into a name.

The call to the owner-dentist, when you reach one

Dr. Okafor, I know you have patients, so I'll be quick. I send postcards to new movers around dental offices, with a tracking number so you can count the calls. I'd like to run one 30-day test around your office and show you the number of calls it produces. Can I send the details to your office manager, Dana, and have her call me with any questions?

The ask is small and measurable, and it routes the work to the person who will do it. A dentist who is interested will say "send it to Dana." One who isn't will say so in ten seconds. Either way you didn't waste their afternoon. Do not claim anything about clinical outcomes, and do not mention any patient information, theirs or anyone else's.

The email both of them can read

Subject: A 30-day test with a tracking number, for Okafor Family Dental

Hi Dana, Dr. Okafor suggested I send this to you. We mail 500 postcards to new movers in the ZIP codes around your office, with a tracking number on each card. For 30 days you see exactly how many people call from the cards. The test costs $420 for the 500 cards, printing and postage included. If you tell me what a new patient is worth to the practice in the first year, I'll tell you how many calls it takes to break even. Can I call you Thursday at 10 to go over the details? Tamsin Reyes, Neighbor Mail, 77 Canal St, Suite 3, Tulsa. Reply "stop" and I won't write again.

Include your physical address and an opt-out line, as CAN-SPAM requires. The break-even question is the useful part: if a new patient is worth $600 in the first year, $420 is repaid by one new patient, so the 500 cards only need to produce one. The practice supplies the number. You are not guessing it for them.

The follow-up goes through the front desk

When Dana doesn't answer Thursday, call the front desk and ask for her next availability: "Hi, Tamsin from Neighbor Mail again. I sent Dana an email on Tuesday and I'm trying to catch her for ten minutes. Is there a day she's usually in the office?" Then email once more the day before: "Dana, calling you tomorrow at 10 as planned." Three touches over two weeks is plenty. Stop after the third and put a reminder in the calendar for next quarter. Our piece on how to get past the gatekeeper when cold calling goes deeper on the front desk, and how to find office managers and facility managers covers finding the person by name.

What to say to the office manager

Dana, thanks for picking up. I know you handle a lot. Here's the whole thing: 500 cards, 30 days, a number you can count. If it brings no calls, you've lost $420 and an afternoon of looking at a spreadsheet. If it brings calls, you'll know what each one cost. What would you need to see to say yes?

The last question is the one that matters. Let her tell you what she needs, and then ask who else has to approve it. If it is the dentist, ask her to put the one-line summary in front of them, and offer to prepare it. Offices also vary in how decisions are made, so ask. A solo-owner practice has one decision maker. A group may have a regional manager. The questions for each are the same, and the sales cycle length is what changes. You can measure your own with the average sales cycle length method.

Logging each call

Record the practice name, who you spoke to, the office manager's name and best day, what was said about timing, and the next date. Keep patient information entirely out of your records. If a front desk person mentions a patient by name, do not write it down. If you sell something that touches patient data, learn the privacy rules before you pitch and plan to sign whatever agreements the law requires. For cold email as a whole, how to cold email the owner instead of the gatekeeper covers the other route, and the opposite side of this market is in getting patients for a dental practice.

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